The Differences Between Male And Female Sex
Animals desire to have a sexual intercourse with another animal of the same kind but opposite gender. Males look for females and the most pleasant feelings are reached at mutual copulation.
As we focus on classical male-female relationship between people, we will analyze it's principles. Firstly let us look at the essence of man and the essence of woman.
It is evident that man and woman came into existence by dividing sexless souls into male and female ones, and there are more feminine elements in women and more masculine in men. But what exactly are these elements and how should they be understood from the point of view of love energy transformation?
The male and female element is experienced not only by sexual intercourse but also by man's and woman's feeling about their body and by how they perceive the surrounding world. By means of feelings, the characteristics of their masculine or feminine constitution is experienced not only when sexual intercourse but during the entire life at all: how man perceives his figure, gender and muscles, what feelings has woman from her figure, curve-shaped butt, tits. When a woman perceives her butt or breasts or her gender, she reaches different feelings than when a man perceives the same parts of his body. So important is not only the different feeling from one's body in men and women but simply the reaching of (in certain things in certain degree) different feelings when perceiving touches and sounds, when emotional experiences both of sexual and non-sexual character. And the difference of their feelings enables the different transformation of energy in relation to their opposite sexual principle.
Energy is distributed differently in males and females. Males love more emotionally and most of their energy is only aimed at copulation with a female, which they experience very intensely. But they behave to other animals and descendants more roughly than females, as a rule.
Females do not enjoy intercourse so intensely, but they are tenderer to other creatures and love their young ones more. Their love is less intensive for one object (male), but more sensitive to all the other creatures and young ones. This law is valid in general not only for animals, but also for people.
When man has sexual intercourse with woman, he has powerful orgasm. Woman might, but also might not have orgasm, but man must. Woman accepts man inside her more or less passively, man enters woman actively. Man gives more and takes less, woman the other way round. Man usually cannot even speak at the act, woman can. So who experiences the intercourse more intensively?
(Please, excuse these insufficient pictures. In simple terms, as far as man's and woman's orgasms are concerned:
Man's orgasm has higher intensity (higher height), but lower width of sensations and shorter time of its duration.
Woman's orgasm has lower intensity (lower height), but bigger width of sensations and longer time of its duration.)
When both partners have orgasm, the exchange of energy is most intensive, their spiritual affinity gets stronger and they become connected to higher spiritual spheres in a certain sense of this word.
Those who experience orgasm at masturbation radiate energy, but do not get any. They are physically relaxed, they release some energy, but they do not accept any energy from another person. Many spirits transform energy with people who masturbate. Occasional masturbation is good for people's health as it releases accumulated pressure that might do harm to a person.
It is more important for men to have orgasm than for women. Women have lower need of physical love than men do. But it is also expressive.
Woman is, under normal circumstances, tuned in for more sensitive vibrations than man. Only when experiencing emotions, man “burns” more than woman and reaches more intensive vibrations at the moment.
The still point of woman is higher than still point of man, whereas the excitement (arousal) point of man is higher than arousal point of woman.
Male ability to love:
Female ability to love:
Women usually want man to show his love through sex, not only through poetry and rhetoric. Woman longs for sex subconsciously and often does not realize this. And if yes it is in her nature to try to hide this longing for sex.
Woman has a steady level of exciting elements that do not change a lot. Steady and stable level of excitement does not exhaust woman, while man with his changeable emotionality once burns and once is cold, which exhausts him more. Woman can be excited, or let us say sentimental, for a long time, but man - for a short moment - gets quickly to the higher level than woman and then - for a short moment - becomes emotionally cold again.
Man loves more where woman loves less and woman loves more where man loves less. Man must give himself to the woman and protect her and love her, she accepts his energy, but also gives some.
Women want to be conquered. They often create situations that increase their attractiveness in the eyes of men. They pretend not to be interested in making love, but they want to be conquered and won over. Women thus lift up their femininity and excite men who then long for them the more.
Women are impressed not only by successful men, but also by those who are able to impose their will on other people, either physically or with intelligence. When a man beats another man, when he dares to revolt against an authoritative man he deserves respect and admiration of women. And so women's desire for roughness becomes evident even if hidden behind their tender appearance.
Women who are attractive, beautiful and who do not have rough male features impress men. Woman must radiate womanhood, gentleness to be attractive for a normal man. Similarly man longs for tenderness of woman and hides it under a rough male appearance.
The real manhood dwells in misunderstanding of womanhood and real womanhood in misunderstanding of manhood.
In every woman there is a minimal amount of male element and in man of female element. When a woman exhibits her attractiveness and she realizes, for example, that man likes her butt and that it excites him, then the woman judges her body with the male element. She is looking at herself with the man's eyes and realizes what is pretty about her. In this case she considers – through her male element - her butt to be pretty and exciting. But when she is conquered and softly “raped”, she experiences it with her submissive female element, above all.
On the other hand, when man with a good figure, big penis, good hair and so on looks at himself with woman's eyes, his female element judges his appearance to be attractive for a woman. But when making love he enjoys it with his male element again.
Women often want to give new face to their womanhood, to show after years of marriage that they are still attractive for men. That is why they let themselves “pick up” by another man and they deceive their husbands. Another reason for adultery is to get other energy than the one of their husband, with which they are already supersaturated.
The same is valid for men. They long for other woman's energy as they have enough of their wives' energy and they want to prove that they are still able to impress and conquer other women.
Faithful marriage without adultery must revitalize its love by making sex more varied and thus regenerate their male and female energies. There are many ways of making sexual life more varied - provocative clothes, playing at strangers and pretending this will be their first time and so on.
The fact is that our bodies as well as our souls make us be unfaithful, often against our will. Then we cannot but succumb. There are very few lovers who are totally faithful. As mutual intensive love and faithfulness of both partners, accompanied by entire good favor of Fate is a very rare phenomenon.
It is true that there is no living creature without need for love. Every organism wants to love and be loved. Some individuals can keep this need down, but inside they are aware of it more or less. The core of each of us longs to embrace and be embraced.
Man needs to unite with woman energy that he lacks. If this lack is big, he makes love with a woman whom he would normally find unattractive and would not long for her. Similarly a woman longing for male energy, if she urgently needs it, can sleep with a man who would be under normal circumstances unattractive for her as well.
In human life there are two moments of highest bliss, love and happiness. These are the moments when life joins life and together they create another life. It is lover's love and motherly love. It is when two people join each other to produce a new life. A few moments when two people make love. When woman gives birth a baby that she will love and it will love her. And when the child grows up, it will meet the love of its life just like its parents long ago, and he or she will produce an ancestor again. And only because of this positive aspect of life the moments can exist when mothers full of love enjoy their children and children love them.
In spite of the fact that man and woman are different, they can only have children together. They need each other. There is one proverb from the Shao-lin temple saying: ”Man and woman are like a coal and a spark. They can only burn together, separated they are cold.”
In some women we can observe male features. Growing beards, male hips and more decisive and less sensitive character. In these cases it is either a male soul incarnated in female body or a female soul that developed male qualities, which is detrimental to female qualities, which can be evident physically.
The same situation is with some men that are too effeminate. Or a female soul entered a male body, or the man developed female qualities at the expense of his male character.
However, the change of sex occurs only rarely and, usually, the soul that used to be a man, will be in its future life a man again, and the soul which used to be a woman will probably be a woman again.
In the both cases of men-like women and women-like men these people should try to preserve the natural qualities of their physical gender and should not consciously develop the features of the opposite sex.
As we know, if it is predestined that a soul is to live through the life of the opposite sex, then it will happen. But the change of sex of one soul depends on the change of sex in more related souls, to whom it is bound by its Karma, and the changes of genders are exceptional. For this reason it is suitable to preserve the features of one's own physical sex and hope in the favor of Fate and correctness of one's behavior.