Through Hate To Love
As we know, in every love there is a piece of hate and in every hate there is a piece of love. Thus a certain piece of love is also in every bad behavior, to which led the hate that contained this piece of love.
If we observe two dogs that fight for leading position, it may seem, that these dogs are bad and want to fight each other in order to only discharge their mutual aggression. Despite that, their aggressive behavior is however motivated by desire for love, that is by love. Each of these dogs wants to win the leading position possibly in order to enjoy the closeness and a favor of it's master more than the other dog is permitted if weaker. In a pack of wolves, for a change, a wolf wants to win the leading position in order to be allowed to choose a suitable female wolf to breed with, to be the first of all the wolves who can experience love with her.
Love is behind everything, in this case also behind this seemingly witless fight of dogs or wolves. The same apply for everything else.
An example:
John and Walter hate each other - but attention - John and Walter also love each other and do not know about it!
1. Walter loves his cousin Laura
2. Laura loves her brother Jack
3. Jack loves his girl-friend Shenandoah
4. Shenandoah loves her father Mike
5. Mike loves his nephew Adrian
6. Adrian loves his teacher Charles
7. Charles loves his son John
8. And, finally, John hates Walter.
The truth is that John and Walter hate each other, but at the same time they love each other through Laura, Jack, Shenandoah, Mike, Adrian and Charles without knowing it! Everybody loves everybody - but often subconsciously!
Let us see several another examples of love-hate relationship and let's say in what way is the negative hate energy allowed to do good about love. A teaching about the balance of contrapositive energies, which operate in the All-Organism, offers an explanation of this fact as well as of everything else.
Hate for oneself: Thanks to the fact, that somebody experiences negative hate energy for himself, somebody other, the opposite of this person, transforms contrary (positive) energy and loves himself. In addition to this fact, when the soul lives in bliss in spiritual worlds, it is self-satisfied and in a certain sense of this word it loves itself by having positive emotions about itself. And one of the reasons for it's incarnation on the Earth may be just the reason to experience the opposite of this state - hate for itself and self-unsatisfactoriness.
Hate for parents: Thanks to the fact, that somebody experiences negative hate energy for his parents, somebody other, the opposite of this person, transforms contrary (positive) energy and loves his parents.
Hate for children: Thanks to the fact, that somebody experiences negative hate energy for children, the opposite of this person transforms contrary energy, positive, and loves children.
Hate (envy) for healthy people: Thanks to the fact, that somebody experiences negative hate energy for healthy people and envy them, the opposite of this person transforms contrary energy, positive, and likes other healthy people and wishes them their health.
Hate for God: Thanks to the fact, that somebody experiences negative hate energy for God, the opposite of this person transforms contrary energy, positive, and loves God. Besides it, all souls do love God so much, that they must - now and then - have a rest from this love and therefore, in some of their material lives, they must unlove God, respectively hate him for some time.
And similarly it is in the relationships in people. When their souls hand over a big quantity of positive love energy, they may for a certain length of time fall in a mutual displeasure up to hate, and their spiritual source of love energy regenerates thanks to it. When these souls get a rest from a mutual love-experiencing, they will be allowed to pretty and tenderly love each other again, as if no hate was between them in their material lives.
As an example let us take a couple of lovers who have a quarrel with each other. And a little later, thanks to their short-term hate, they can love each other again as soon as their quarrel finished and the time of reconciliation came. They rested by hate from mutual love and so they could pick up their strength to intensely love each other again.
The truth is that hate is bad and evil. But believe it or not, hate is beneficial for love in the end, although by a circuitous way.
It sounds paradoxically, but Jesus said two contrapositive things:
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. Love your neighbour as yourself.”
“If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.”
We often can get to love just through the hate. We ought to experience both these contradictions. They both are perfectly joined together and depend on one another.